What I miss about being married to you:

1. The smell of your perfume when I kissed you on the neck
2. Sleeping together and spooning on a cold night
3. Reading the NY Times together on Sunday
4. Shopping at Fairway
5. Taking 9 months to plan that 10 day trip to France
6. Being able to buy you flowers for no special occasion
7. Watching you get dressed in the morning
8. Washing your car for you
9. Buying wine together
10. Those sexy stockings and lingerie you wore just for me
11. Cooking with you
12. Hiking to the top of the mountain and looking over the valley with you
13. Going to see foreign films
14. Lunch in the city on Friday
15. Watching all the jealous men looking at you while you were on my arm
16. The way you held my hand on long drives upstate
17. Being able to call you every day to say hello
18. Wearing my wedding ring
19. Never having to worry about finding a date for New Year's Eve or Valentines Day

Why it was horrible to be married to you:

1. You inability to reciprocate emotionally
2. The fear and panic that set in on you when you realized we were getting close
3. Letting your family, friends and job take priority over our marriage
4. Escaping our marriage by drowning yourself in work

You just could not deal with being in a close, intimate relationship. That's why we got divorced. I deserve better than you but I resent that because of your shortcomings and fears that you ruined our marriage